I feel like this was a lot of words to say that you don't understand demisexuality, or asexuality, or the spectrum therein, and don't want to try to understand it, either. This is right up there with "asexuality is the right to not sleep with other people" level of misunderstanding. That's not what asexuality is, just as demisexuality isn't just not sleeping with someone on the first date or avoiding one night stands. This post perpetuates several misconceptions and myths surrounding demisexuality, asexuality, sexual attraction, and libido, and does so multiple times. It's extremely disappointing to see this in this publication as it's so proudly misunderstanding what it says it's talking about. I hope you take the time to actually learn the meaning of the words you're writing about at some point when it comes to demisexuality and ace related topics. Until then, I bid you adieu.