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Sep 2, 2023

How I have and enjoy sex without sexual attraction

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Apr 3, 2023

No One Taught Me Demisexuality Was an Option. Now My Life Makes Sense.

It’s okay to be demisexual

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Jul 25, 2020

Yes, Aces and Aros Are Queer — Here’s Why

The first time I ever heard the word asexual, I was 23 years old. At the time I was hanging out with someone who I wanted to date very…

Yes, Aces and Aros Are Queer — Here’s Why

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Nov 15, 2020

Why Coming Out as Demisexual Matters

The most common response I get when I explain to someone that I’m demisexual is that I’m just normal and looking for a special word for my…

Why Coming Out as Demisexual Matters

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Feb 22, 2025

Why everyone should learn about aromanticism

Why everyone should learn about aromanticism

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Oct 30, 2023

I feel like this was a lot of words to say that you don't understand demisexuality, or asexuality…

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Mar 15, 2023

A different look at ADHD

This was originally written for and published on It’s Not Your Journey on blogspot in 2019. I am reposting it here for my personal blog…

A different look at ADHD

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Jan 3, 2023

Where The Word ‘Demisexual’ Comes From

Conditional sexual attraction. Rare sexual attraction. Sexual attraction that only forms under a specific circumstance.

Where The Word ‘Demisexual’ Comes From

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Oct 30, 2022

Here’s What Ace Men and Masculine Aligned Aces Want You To Know

Old muscle cars. Dogs. Bottling up emotions, drinking a beer. Watching football on Sunday with the guys. Providing for a family. There are…

Here’s What Ace Men and Masculine Aligned Aces Want You To Know

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Sep 28, 2022

Being Ace and M-Spec: An Exploration

Pansexuality and bisexuality. Biromantic vs Panromantic. Omnisexual vs polysexual. Panromantic, polyromantic, biromantic and omniromantic…

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Elle Rose

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queer. demisexual. ADHD. disabled. writer. YouTuber. shy but chaotic. they/she. contact: secretladyspider@gmail.com

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